Saturday, December 4, 2010

HYE...epi saturday cam da lm sgt kut xmenconteng2 nih...n as usual da reason is..busy..ntah bl xbz xtau..huhuhu...nk cite sal keje bored...!!bnda yg sm je kut..haa..2dy juz wanna share sumtink i receive from my fren..if not mistaken kut...simple story but its meaningful..n rs xsalah kut i share ngn uols kn??its all about life..mbe die leh kasi information tuk kite smua..mbe kite lum jdi mbe kite akan jdi n kite pnya parents rite...????

juzz check dis'out......

"One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision. The director discovered from the CV,  that the youth's academic result is excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never has a year he did not score. ~~ huh..pnjng kalo nk tulis 1 by 1 ape director 2 tny..di pendekkn cite..director 2 tny did he obtain any scholarship..n si mamat ni gtau yg die xpenah dpt mn2 scholarship n his dad pasaway since 1 years old n his mum paid all da fees..n director yg budiman 2 pn b'tnya la kat si mamat ni ape keje mak die bt..n si mamat 2 pn dgn ikhlas ckp mak die ni as a cloth cleaner...

The director requested the youth to show his hand, si mamat  ni pn showed a pair of hand that is smooth and perfect..Director ni pn tny la si mamat nih ade tolong ke mak die..dgn jujur die ckp mak die xpenah nk suh die tolong n always wanted to study and read more books, furthermore, si ibu can wash cloths faster than him..Slps mendgr cite si mamat ni director ni suh die blik...cnfirm cuak dak ni...bunyi cam da fail la kan?? director 2 suh die blik n help to clean his mum's hand..n see the director tomorow morning...Bila dgr cam 2 si mamat rs cam its chance of landing the job is high, when he went back, he happily wanted to clean his mother's hand, his mother feel strange, happy but mixed with fear, she showed her hand to the kid. 

He cleaned his mother's hand slowly, his tear drop down as he did that.  It is first time he found his mother's hand is so wrinkled, and there are so many bruises in her hand. Some bruises incites pains so strong that shiver her mother's body when cleaned with water. 

Dan bt pertama kali nye si mamat ni realize betapa ssh nye si ibu bekerja seharian tuk dptkn duit anta die blaja...smpai la die b'jaya dgn cemerlang...After finishing the cleaning of his mother hand, si mamat quietly cleaned all remaining clothes for his mother. n bt julung kali si ank punya masa bborak pnjang ngn si ibu...

keesokan ari nye,si mamat kembali ke ofis 2 n jumpe ngn director 2...n director 2 tny ape yg jdi n ape yg dia dpt mamat dgn mata yg cam penuh keinsafan ckp die bt ape director 2 suh...

The director noticed the tear in the youth's eye,n si mamat said ;

Number 1, I knew what is appreciation, without my mother, there would not the successful me today. 
Number 2, I knew how to work together with my mother, then only I can realize how difficult and tough to get something done. 
Number 3, I knew the importance and value of family relationship. 

las2 si director 2 pn ckp yg die akn amik si mamat ni keje sbb die ckp he want to recruit a person that can appreciate the help of other, a person that knew the suffering of others to get thing done, and a person that would not put money as his only goal in life to be my manager.

Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates, every employees worked diligently and in a team, the company's result improved tremendously. 
A child who has been protected and habitually given whatever he did, he developed "entitlement mentality" and always put himself first. He is ignorance of his parent's effort. When he started work, he assumed every people must listen to him, and when he became a manager, he would never know how suffering his employee and always blame others.  For this kind of people, he can have good result, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement, he will grumble and full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parent, did we love the kid or destroy the kid? 

You can let your kid lived in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experienced it. After a meal, let them washed their plate and bowl together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way.  You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parent are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learn how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learn the ability to work with others to get thing done." advice....luv ur mum n remember no ones loves us as long as ur parents...


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